Dear Men.  Women do not expect you to have the same emotional capacity as we do, we just expect you to understand.  It’s kind of like death.  You don’t have to feel the same way as those in mourning, but you can sympathize with them and understand how they must feel. By nature and the way our hormones are setup, women can be emotional beings.  Women feel and see things whereas most men only see things for what they are.  It’s not wrong to be an emotional person as long

There are differences between standards and preferences and both should be equally considered when forming a relationship with someone. Your standards are a list of expectations that someone must meet in order to work effectively with your nature.  They are requirements that one must possess that you feel are necessary to have a functional relationship.  They have been set to maintain your own sense of sanity and happiness.  Hopefully, they are morals and values that you too hold yourself accountable for.  You should meet the same requirements that you expect from

He is focused on the wrong things. Competition is usually the first culprit.  These days and age, sex appeal and having the baddest chick is more important than anything.  It’s practically shoved down our throats on social media.  Men talk and give each other kudos for picking out a “baddie.”  Although she may be drop dead gorgeous, she may not complement the man.  Some men need too much clout and get clouded by attraction and style only. I think that’s how some men wind up becoming cheaters.  They get physical

I’m no dating expert, but have learned from my mistakes and how to make better decisions. My best friend once told me to make a list of all the traits I wanted my partner to have.  Then she said, don’t settle for anyone unless they can fulfill your list.  You may find that you compromise on a few items, but you should not falter on your whole entire list. If you know what you want, then you know what to look for.  But on the flip-side, you must also know

Unfortunately, most women don’t truly know thyself.  They may know what they like, but fail to understand what they need.  Most of this is due to the lack of being honest with oneself.  You have to understand your personality, demeanor, energy, needs and wants in order to find someone who complements your style.  You have to be in tune with your own spirit to understand when you find someone who vibes with it.  I call this chemistry. We all have positive and negative traits, but the average person refuses to

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