He is focused on the wrong things. Competition is usually the first culprit.  These days and age, sex appeal and having the baddest chick is more important than anything.  It’s practically shoved down our throats on social media.  Men talk and give each other kudos for picking out a “baddie.”  Although she may be drop dead gorgeous, she may not complement the man.  Some men need too much clout and get clouded by attraction and style only. I think that’s how some men wind up becoming cheaters.  They get physical

I’m no dating expert, but have learned from my mistakes and how to make better decisions. My best friend once told me to make a list of all the traits I wanted my partner to have.  Then she said, don’t settle for anyone unless they can fulfill your list.  You may find that you compromise on a few items, but you should not falter on your whole entire list. If you know what you want, then you know what to look for.  But on the flip-side, you must also know

Unfortunately, most women don’t truly know thyself.  They may know what they like, but fail to understand what they need.  Most of this is due to the lack of being honest with oneself.  You have to understand your personality, demeanor, energy, needs and wants in order to find someone who complements your style.  You have to be in tune with your own spirit to understand when you find someone who vibes with it.  I call this chemistry. We all have positive and negative traits, but the average person refuses to

I have kept a journal since I was in 3rd grade.  I used to have a physical notebook, but converted it to electronic format in 2012 so I could write on the go.  I haven’t written in my journal for months. I usually only do so when something is weighing me down or so exciting that I must get it out.  I hardly ever go back and read my journal entries, but the other day, my life coach told me I needed to start jotting down my business ideas.  I

The passing of Nipsey Hussle hit me in such a powerful way.  I had just recently been introduced to his music through my husband who is a major fan.  I enjoyed his lyrics and music production, but too bad we can no longer listen to the messages he had in store for us.  However, I had no idea how beloved he was by his community and peers.  I felt so sad that he was not able to get this type of attention while he was still alive. His funeral was

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