He is focused on the wrong things. Competition is usually the first culprit.  These days and age, sex appeal and having the baddest chick is more important than anything.  It’s practically shoved down our throats on social media.  Men talk and give each other kudos for picking out a “baddie.”  Although she may be drop dead gorgeous, she may not complement the man.  Some men need too much clout and get clouded by attraction and style only. I think that’s how some men wind up becoming cheaters.  They get physical

I’m no dating expert, but have learned from my mistakes and how to make better decisions. My best friend once told me to make a list of all the traits I wanted my partner to have.  Then she said, don’t settle for anyone unless they can fulfill your list.  You may find that you compromise on a few items, but you should not falter on your whole entire list. If you know what you want, then you know what to look for.  But on the flip-side, you must also know

Unfortunately, most women don’t truly know thyself.  They may know what they like, but fail to understand what they need.  Most of this is due to the lack of being honest with oneself.  You have to understand your personality, demeanor, energy, needs and wants in order to find someone who complements your style.  You have to be in tune with your own spirit to understand when you find someone who vibes with it.  I call this chemistry. We all have positive and negative traits, but the average person refuses to

I have kept a journal since I was in 3rd grade.  I used to have a physical notebook, but converted it to electronic format in 2012 so I could write on the go.  I haven’t written in my journal for months. I usually only do so when something is weighing me down or so exciting that I must get it out.  I hardly ever go back and read my journal entries, but the other day, my life coach told me I needed to start jotting down my business ideas.  I

The passing of Nipsey Hussle hit me in such a powerful way.  I had just recently been introduced to his music through my husband who is a major fan.  I enjoyed his lyrics and music production, but too bad we can no longer listen to the messages he had in store for us.  However, I had no idea how beloved he was by his community and peers.  I felt so sad that he was not able to get this type of attention while he was still alive. His funeral was

A lot of people compare having a dog to a child.  But let’s be honest, you can’t crate your children or leave their food in a bowl or leave them in kennels when you travel.  You also don’t have to deal with them for the rest of your life as their life spans are short. You don’t have to go through child labor pains either, you simply just adopt or purchase your pet.  However, there are some valuable lessons and parenting skills you learn that I believe will help when

I read people’s post that black people have become lazy, stagnant and don’t fight for their rights like our ancestors once did.  They think we are flakey when it comes to boycotting politics, sports and luxury brands. What else are we going to do? Stop watching sports altogether?  Stop shopping in general? I feel like we should create our own football league and stores, but not enough of us are in it together like we used to be. I personally do not believe there is much more we can do

You ever been in so much pain that you would rather die?  And not only die, but take yourself out of your own misery?  And not only kill yourself, but do it in the worst way possible because that’s all you think you deserve.  That’s exactly what some mental illnesses feel like and is the reason why some people opt for death.  I want to explain this so people understand just how empty and painful it feels to want to commit suicide.  I always ask that the LORD has mercy

xennials

Xennials is a new term coined by Sarah Stankorb.  It’s a micro-generation of people born between 1977 and 1985. I think a lot of Xennials were frustrated that they were clumped in with Millennials.  We didn’t have all the privileges and perks of Millennials.  I think it’s fair to say that most of us feel that we were the last of the Mahicans. For one, we didn’t have social media to vent to.  And our parents probably would be in jail for beating us after calling the cops on them

I didn’t like the short film, “Nappily Ever After.”  I didn’t appreciate the title and I didn’t like the idea that it perpetuated the agenda that natural hair is bad.  It was just silly to me and way too predictable.  I understand it was trying to teach women to like their natural hair, but I did not like how they went about conveying their message.  It was one of those movies where I was screaming like I would in ridiculous scary movies when all they had to do was run.

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