I’ve been wanting to write about cheating for a long time, but fall victim to procrastination. To be honest, I wanted to write about it during the whole Jay-Z and Beyonce Lemonade scandal, but didn’t. Every time a new story is hot, I wait too long to write about it, but the sad part is, there’s always another story; you know like Tristan Thompson, Kevin Hart and Donald Trump Jr. to name a few. Simply put, cheating is one of the worst things you can ever do to your partner.
A lot of people share their relationships with me and confide in me for advice. Often when I hear them explain their problems, I notice common themes surrounding their arguments. Communication is huge in relationships. But I’m starting to realize a lot of people think communication is delimited to explaining how you feel to someone. Although it’s important to express your feelings and emotions in relationships, we must understand that they aren’t tangible and are nothing more than figments of our imagination. The communication we should have is why those
I’m starting to understand what true love really means. It’s an involuntary act of genuine concern. When you love someone, you are in love with their entire being. You care about their feelings, their level of contentment, their state of happiness, their personal well-being, their endeavors, ambitions, goals and desires. You are attracted to their very essence of life. You are compassionate towards them and consider them when making decisions. They have the ability to alter your behaviors because of how much you care about them. You are influenced by
My friend tagged me to this post and I honestly didn’t know what to expect when I read it. But after reading it the first thing that came to mind is that marriage is not for the individual, it is for the partner. I think too many people feel that they will be fulfilled when they finally marry and unfortunately those are selfish reasons. If you are not already happy, content, satisfied and financially savvy by yourself, no one else will ever be able to provide that because they come
I’m no expert on relationships by any means but definitely consider myself experienced in the realm of dating. When I finally landed myself in the most awesome relationship ever, I quickly learned our bond did not occur because the stars were finally in alignment, but because we shared some of the same traits as successful couples. I realized we were not any better or more special than anyone else who found true love. As I talked to friends and family who were either married or in loyal relationships, I developed
My uncle once told me no man will ever leave a woman alone until she leaves him alone. I was in a miserable relationship at the time in which we broke up, made up and broke up again. He did so many horrible things to me that I am literally too embarrassed to share. I was too weak to break the relationship on my own and prayed my crazy ex would just leave me first, but that never happened. My family was extremely annoyed that I would allow a man
Trust me I’m no expert when it comes to dating and have had my fair share of broken hearts on the battlefield. However, I’m no idiot either and finally learned a few lessons from my mistakes. Since then I have developed my own philosophy of dating that I especially wrote for my ladies, but feel any gender can benefit. It’s not that God chooses who He will and will not bless with a good partner, it’s up to you to understand what kind of person you are as well as